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  Please do not put your name on this.

   Here are some of the reasons for this anonymous questionnaire:

1. To help you; 2. To help others; & 3.To help us; do at least the following things:

 - learn teaching technique

- develop increased openness

- discover problem areas

- improve your sexual ministry!!!!!

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Here's the reason we do not want you to sign this questionnaire.

We want you to feel totally free to answer these questions without embarrassment, fear of discovery, or shame. You may remain totally anonymous; in fact, we prefer that this be so, in order that you may have greater liberty in your answering. Please answer these questions to the best of your ability, without shame. If you have a question, please feel free to ask for assistance. We are also available to counsel with you about your deepest need or most secret problem. We have been successful in God in helping dear ones with condemnation, fears and "hang ups" from the past.

 
 Take your time with these questions, and let this be a "fun" adventure.

          1.  Are you married?

          2.  What is the purpose(s) or reason(s) for sex?

          3.  Do you think that sex is sinful?

          4.  Is there a difference between lust and temptation?

          5.  Do you think that masturbation is always wrong?

          6.  If, suddenly, your spouse was injured in such a way as to make sex impossible between you, would you stay married?

          7.  Do you think that there are any circumstances where divorce is justified?

          8.  Do you think there are any circumstances where abortion is justified?

          9.  Do you think that a person is ever justified forgetting a wrong attitude or wrong spirit?

          10. Is one ever excused for holding a grudge, or bitterness or resentment toward anyone about anything?

          11. Are you aware of any resentment or bitterness, within yourself, toward anyone?

          12. Do you believe that oral sex is wrong?

          13. Do you think That it is possible to keep from sinning?

          14. Are you willing to do anything God would tell you to?

         15.  If someone came up to you and asked how to be born again, what would you tell them? (explain how to be born again.)

         16.  Please guesstimate your spiritual temperature, on a scale between 0-100. 100= razor-sharp and white-hot for God; 50 = luke-warm; 0 - sinful, undedicated and cold.)

         17.  How long have you been born again?

         18.  Have you ever read the Bible all the way through, without skipping any parts??? If so, about how many times?

         19.  Do you have any problems too deep or personal to tell anyone? Is there anything we can do to help?

         20.  Would you like or do you need confidential counseling about any thing?

         21.  Please list 7 things in order of importance in your life.

         22.  Please list 5 of the most important things that Christ took of yours with Him to the cross.

         23.  Please describe how you mostly learned about sex. (For example: parents, school library,friends, etc.)

         24.  Would you say that your first experiences with sex were pleasant, painful, terrifying or what?

         25.  Do you enjoy sex? (remember, this questionnaire is secret.)

         26.  If you are married, how often do you have intercourse?

27.     How often would you like to have intercourse?

         28.  Estimate how often your mate would like to have intercourse?

         29.  How long have you been married?

         30.  Are you male or female?

         31.  Do you carry a sense of guilt about sexual things?

         32.  What percentage of your sexual needs are being met by your spouse?

         33.  What percentage of your emotional needs are being met by your mate?

         34.  Where did sex come from?

         35.  Do you agree with the following statement? "The only ingredient necessary to make any relationship work, is mutual and total commitment to the will of God."

         36.  Do you have any bitterness or un-forgiveness toward your spouse?

         37.  Do you think you have need for inner healing from past hurts?

         38.  Compared to all that you think you should know about sex, what percentage do you think you know?

         39.  What percent do you think your spouse knows? (in comparison to what should be known).

         40.  What percent do you think the average Christian husband, or wife knows?

         41.  Do you believe that intimidation is ever justified?

         42.  At what age do you remember experiencing your first orgasm?

         43.  Do you think it is sinful for a married couple to take a bath or shower together?

         44.  List as many words as you can to describe how you think God intends sex to be.

          45.   What percentage of non-Christian couples would you say have sexual hang-ups?

          46.   Answer the above as pertaining to Christian couples?

          47.   Does your spouse have sexual hang-ups? What

                are they?

          48.   Do you have any sexual hang-ups? What are they?

          49.   If you had it to do all over again, would you choose your present mate above any other?

          50.   Do you love your spouse?

          51.   Was there a time when you loved each other more?

          52.   Make a list of things you would like to see changed about your mate.

          53. In your marriage, what percentage of the problems are your mate's fault?

          54. When you are "making love", approximately what percentage of the time do you achieve an orgasm?

          55. Do you know about the "G-spot"?

          56. Do  you know about kegal exercises?

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