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Chapter 15

KINGDOM PRINCIPLES (A REVIEW)

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           1. God created sex to be wonderful!

           2. Married Christians should be the most successful

         sexual ministries in the world! Instead, they are often

         the most "hung-up" or repressed. Get the skeleton of

         St. Augustine out of the closet of your life.

           3. Of all the billions that have ever lived, or are

         living now, you are the only one in the universe who

         can legitimately minister sexually to your spouse.

         Your spouse has to suffer, in exact proportion to the

         lack in your sex4al ministry. Never have sex with

         anyone you are not married to, in thought or deed!

           4. Divorce is never an option! (I Cor. 7:11)

           5. God's formula for a wife to learn how to love her

         husband, and how to raise her children, is for a

         woman who is even more nature, to teach her and to

         train her.

           6. "Inextricable intermingling" - when two people

         have intercourse, everything that is in the one,

         becomes totally and inextricably intermingled with

         all that is in the other person -body, soul, mind, heart,

         and spirit! If the person is a Christian, Christ is also

         part of the intermingling! (Titus 2:4).        

           7. God intended that good sex be healthy for the

         whole being. The sexual ministry has an effect upon

         the whole person, body, soul, mind, heart, and spirit.

           8. We must have sex if the spouse requests it. The

         Bible says that the only reason for withholding

         sexually, is "for the purpose of prayer and fasting, and

         that by mutual consent, and that, for a short time

         only." (I Corinthians 7:2-5.)

           9. There is never an excuse for sin, adultery, or a

         wrong spirit. God is great enough to keep us

         victorious. (2 Corinthians 2:14,15) God enables us,

         and thus expects us, to consistently keep a right spirit

         and heart attitude.

           10. Becoming "born-again" and right with God, is

         the first priority In life and is a requirement to having

         the "best of all possible sex". Jesus must be Lord of

         all!

           11. The first and most important priority reason for

         marriage, is sex. The Bible says that it is "better not to

         marry", but that "it is better to marry, than to burn"

         with unfulfilled sexual. tension. Within marriage,

         every thing can legitimately "hired" done, except the

         sexual ministry.

           12. A woman's value as a wife, not as a woman, a

         person, a Christian, or a mother, but as a wife, can be

         evaluated in direct proportion to the quality of her

         sexual ministry.

           13. If a person is "born-again", the greatest secret

         of all, that one can know, is: "The King's Greatest

         Secret" - the full implications of having Christ

         actually living within us as our very life!!! It is the        

         "secret" to being "perfect", and the secret of having a

         "perfect" marriage!

           14.     The sexual ministry should take place often, so

         as to reduce temptation. (I Corinthians 7:2-5)

           15.     The withholding of romance, love, tenderness,

         sex, and affection from one's spouse for any reason,

         including emotional blackmail, extortion, or revenge,

         is criminal, and forbidden.

           16.     We are to forgive our spouse 70 times 7 every

         day! (If necessary).

           17.     The true basis of love is a commitment of our

         will, based on the will of God and not on our feelings,

         emotions, circumstances. The concept of "falling in

         love" is a Babylonian-Hollywood myth!

           18.     A wife does not "have to be" submissive to her

         husband. If she is submissive, it is because she chooses

         to because she wants to, because she wants to do the

         will of God, and not because she has to. It's a "get to",

         not a "got to".

           19.     Intimidation is never the will of God.

         Intimidation and love are mutually exclusive terms.

         They cannot co-exist. Husbands are not to beat,

         berate, nor browbeat their wife.

           20.     A wife's submission to God must come before

         her submission to her husband. The same is true for

         the man. The Kingdom Principle is: "We must always

         be submissive to the Christ, through whom ever He

         speaks, and where ever He is found, even if He is

         speaking through a woman, (a wife!), a child, a

         donkey, or a man; but we must never be submissive to

         the opinion of man when it is contrary to the will of        

         God, or to the influence of satan, regardless of

         through whom that opinion or influence comes, even

         if it is coming through the mightiest apostle, (or

         husband)!"

           21.     A spouse should keep one's sexual organs, as

         clean as the rest of the body.

           22.     It is adultery to lust for other than your mate in

         your heart, but it is not a sin to "lust" after your own

         spouse. Thus, masturbation is only sometimes a sin.

           23.     The Bible never in any place states or implies

         that there are certain parts of our spouse's body that

         are un-kissable. (See the Song of Songs, and keep your

         geography straight.)

           24.     The Bible does not forbid the reading or writing

         of an erotic love letter to or from one's spouse.

           25.     God expects us to get his permission to have

         children, not leaving this or any thing else to chance

         and happenstance.

           26.     Premature ejaculation has some easy and

         practical solutions.

           27.     "Don't let the sun go down on your wrath." A

         Christian is to have total control over the emotions.

         God demands that we forgive, and not be bitter,

         taking the initiative to heal the relationship even

         though we may not have been the "guilty" party.

           28.     It becomes accredited to your account, as

         having been done to Christ, the way you relate to your

         spouse! Matthew 25.

          29.     God intends for the wife to be as sexually

         skilled and aggressive, and creative as any prostitute.

          30.     Kegal exercises are important.          

          31.     "We wrestle not against flesh and blood, but

         against principalities", etc. Don't be deceived by the

         devil's dastardly demonic devices, via,, invisible

         wedged shaped principalities, etc.

           32.     It is very important to express gratitude and

         appreciation to your spouse for their life and ministry

         to you. We deserve only hell. Therefore we should be

         grateful for everything above hell.

           S3. "Love always believes the best about the

         other". Faith for each other is important

           34.     Prayer together is vital.

           35.     The only ingredient necessary to make any

         relationship work is: total commitment to the will of

         God!!!,.

           36.     It has been proven that almost any woman may

         have as many orgasms as she wants. Apply the 100

         fold return here!

           37.     Turn your distraction into a reminder: every

         time you fail to receive the love and appreciation you

         would like to have, be reminded that God has a

         terrible problem with our lack of gratitude, and is so

         glad, when we are grateful

           38. Rule by serving. "Be subject to one another in

         the fear of God".

           40.     It is important to read the Bible through,

         without skipping any parts

           41. "To the pure all things are pure". We must not

         draw the circle of morality tighter than God does or

         looser. If some sexual thing within marriage is not

         expressly forbidden in the Word - you don't have to

         worry too much about, it.        

           42.     When all else fails: be kind! Be friendly. Why is

         it that we would not even think of treating a devil

         possessed stranger as unkindly or as abusively as we

         do our spouse?

           43.     "If a man fails to provide for his family, he is

         worse than an infidel, and has denied the faith." This

         command extends into every need that the wife has,

         especially including her romantic, emotional, and

         sexual needs; not just financial.

           44.     The sexual ministry is a God-ordained, God-

         created, God-anointed, God-commissioned ministry!!

         It's important!

           45.     The marriage is not a 50-50% deal, but 100-

         100 %. It is healthy for each partner to assume 100 %

         of the responsibility for a problem within the

         marriage, instead of blaming the other, and excusing

         one's self.

           46.     It is possible to "live happily ever after"!!!

           47.     "A distraction reversed, equals a reminder."

         Using the Biblical principle of transference, if one

         happens to be exposed to something containing erotic

         content, one must always associate this with one's

         own spouse, and never upon another person other

         than one's spouse.

           48.     "Ya get better mileage out of 'em if ya treat ‘em

         right!" The Bible commands the husband: "Rejoice

         with the wife of thy youth". Again, the Kingdom

         Principle applies, "Rule through serving!" Keep in

         mind here also the Kingdom Principle of "the 100-

         fold return God promises on all that is invested for

         Him."        

           49.     "One plus one equals one!" (1 + 1 - 1). The

         answer is not two! When the two candles light the one

         larger candle, then the first two are to be

         extinguished! "Except a corn of wheat fall into the

         ground and die, it abides alone..." Both individuals in

         a marriage must lay down their life for the other, as

         the means to the fulfillment of God's intent for their

         Kingdom Marriage.

           50.     God intends for your marriage to be a Kingdom

         marriage, that is, a marriage in which God is

         completely the King. This means that you will be

         loving each other the way the King wants, serving

         each other, being patient, kind, forgiving, just as Jesus

         wants.

           51.     God intends that your marriage be a trophy of

         triumph! He wants people to look at your marriage

         and say, "That's what I want my marriage to be like!!!"

           52.     A right relationship to one's spouse is a

         requirement for ministry in the Church.

           53. God commands: "Above all, love one another

         fervently, out of a pure heart!" (I Peter 1:22 & 4:8).

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